Chifukwa Chiyani Mwana Wanu Wazaka 4 ndi Wazaka 10 Amafunika Kuphunzitsidwa Mosiyana

Ngati muli ndi mwana woposa mmodzi, mumadziwa kale izi mwachibadwa: momwe mwana wazaka zinayi amaphunzira kuyankhula si chimodzimodzi ndi momwe wazaka khumi amachitira. Nkhani iyi ndi ya makolo a ana azaka 4 mpaka 12 amene akufuna kukhazikitsa zoyembekeza zoyenera komanso kusankha mitu yophunzitsa imene imavutitsa mwana wawo pakali pano kwenikweni - osati chaka chatha, kapena chaka chamawa.

Kuyankhulana Si Luso Limodzi - Ndi Chinthu Chosintha

Nthawi zina makolo amaganiza za "kuyankhulana" ngati bokosi limodzi loti ndiponyere chizindikiro. Koma kwenikweni, ndi gulu la maluso ambiri amene amapitirira kukula nthawi yonse ya ubwana. Mawu amachuluka. Kapangidwe ka chiganizo kamakhala kovuta. Ana amaphunzira kusinthana poyankhula, kuwerenga zizindikiro za chikhalidwe, kutsutsa mfundo, ndi kufotokoza nkhani yomveka. Luso lililonse mwa awa lili ndi nthawi yake yokulira, ndipo mtundu woyenera wophunzitsa wa zaka zisanu sufanana ndi womwe ungafunike wa zaka khumi ndi limodzi.

Kulakwitsa mbali iliyonse kumawononga kanthu. Ngati ndi kosavuta kwambiri, mwana wanu amatopa. Ngati ndi kovuta kwambiri, amasiya kuchita nawo kapena amadzimva movutika. Malo abwino ndi ntchito imene ili pang'ono chabe kuposa zomwe akhoza kale kuchita mosavuta.

Zaka 4 mpaka 6 - Kumanga Maziko

Pa gawo ili, ana akadali kumanga zinthu zoyambira. Zofunika kwambiri zimaphatikizapo:

Kuchuluka kwa mawu - mawu atsopano amabwera mofulumira, koma amafunika kubwerezedwa kambiri mu mawu kuti agwiritsidwe ntchito
Kapangidwe ka chiganizo chosavuta - mutu, mverbu, chinthu; maganizo awiri kapena atatu olumikizidwa pamodzi
Kusinthana poyankhula - kuphunzira kuti kucheza kumayenda mbali ziwiri, osati mbali imodzi yokha
Kutchula maganizo - kulumikiza mkhalidwe wamkati ndi mawu ngati "wokwiya" kapena "wokondwa"

Chimene chimatukula mwana wazaka zinayi mpaka zisanu ndi zitatu si kuvuta - ndi kubwereza mowongoleredwa pa malo opanda kupanikizika. Macheza afupi, achikondi pa mitu ngati nyama, zakudya zokondedwa, kapena zomwe zachitika lero zimawapatsa mtundu wa kuphunzitsa kothandizidwa komwe amafuna. Cholinga ndi mawu ochuluka, chidaliro chochuluka, ndi chizolowezi chomvetsera asanayankhule.

Zopewa pa gawo ili

Pewani mitu yovuta kumvetsa ("Kodi chilungamo chikutanthauza chiyani?") ndi chilichonse chofuna kusunga maganizo ambiri olumikizana mu mutu. Kukhumudwa ndi chizindikiro chakuti ntchito ndi yayikulu kwambiri, osati kuti mwana wanu akutsalira.

Zaka 7 mpaka 9 - Kukula kwa Kuvuta

Chinthu chimasintha pafupi ndi nthawi yoyamba sukulu ya pulayimale. Ana ayamba kuzindikira kuti anthu ena ali ndi chidziwitso chosiyana ndi malingaliro osiyana. Chinenero chawo chimafunika kuyenda limodzi ndi kudumpha kwa chikhalidwe kumeneko.

Zofunika kwambiri pa gawo ili:

Kapangidwe ka nkhani - kufotokoza nkhani yokhala ndi chiyambi, pakati, ndi mapeto
Kufotokoza zifukwa - "Ndikuganiza X chifukwa cha Y"
Kufunsa mafunso owonjezera - chidwi chenicheni, osati kungotsanzira akulu
Kukopa koyambirira - kupereka mfundo pa chinthu chimene akufuna

Mitu yabwino yophunzitsa tsopano imaphatikizapo kufotokoza momwe chinthu chimagwirira ntchito, kubwereza nkhani ya buku kapena filimu, kapena kutsutsana pa funso lopepuka ngati "Kodi ana asankhe okha nthawi yawo yogona?" Kutukula sikuli mu mawu okha koma mu kukonza maganizo asanayankhule.

Ndi mphunzitsi wa mawu wa AI wa Callee Me, AI imagwiritsa ntchito deta yokhazikika ya kupita patsogolo kuchokera ku macheza akale kuti imange pa zomwe mwana akudziwa kale - choncho mwana wazaka zisanu ndi ziwiri amene anatha kufotokoza nkhani zosavuta sabata yatha angatsogozedwe mofatsa kuti awonjezere tsatanetsatane ndi maulumikizo a chifukwa-ndi-zotsatira sabata ino.

Zaka 10 mpaka 12 - Kuloza ku Kuyankhulana Kokhwima

Pofika zaka khumi, ana ambiri amatha kucheza modabwitsa, koma akukumananso ndi zopanikiza zatsopano za chikhalidwe zomwe zingawapangitse kukhala chete kapena kuchita masewero m'malo mocheza kwenikweni. Ili ndi gawo limene chidaliro ndi luso zifunika kukula limodzi.

Zofunika kwambiri apa:

Kuganiza za zinthu zovuta kumvetsa ndi zoyerekeza - "Chitachitika ndi chiyani ngati...?"
Kutsutsa kokhazikika - kupereka maganizo ndi umboni komanso kuvomereza mbali ina
Kusiyanitsa pa kusankha mawu - kuzindikira kuti "wokwiya pang'ono", "wopsa mtima", ndi "wokhumudwa" si zofanana
Kusintha kayankhulidwe - kuyankhula mosiyana ndi bwenzi, mphunzitsi, ndi munthu wamkulu wosamudziwa

Kuphunzitsa pa gawo ili kuyenera kumveka ngati kucheza kwenikweni. Mitu yomwe imagwira bwino ntchito imaphatikizapo zochitika zaposachedwa zoyenera ana, mavuto a makhalidwe opanda yankho limodzi lolondola, kapena kukonzekera mkhalidwe weniweni ngati kupereka nkhani ku sukulu kapena masewero a kuyankhulana pa ntchito.

Chifukwa Callee Me imathandiza macheza a mawu m'zinenero 74, mabanja amene akulera ana olankhula zinenero ziwiri angalole mwana wazaka khumi kapena khumi ndi limodzi kuphunzitsa maluso apamwamba omwemo m'zinenero zonse ziwiri - kufanizira vuto la maganizo ndi mikhalidwe iwiri ya chinenero panthawi imodzi.

Momwe Mungakhazikitsire Zoyembekeza Zoyenera Zaka mu Kuphunzitsa

Lamulo losavuta: pambuyo pa nthawi yophunzitsa, mwana wanu ayenera kumva kutukulidwa pang'ono koma makamaka kupambana. Ngati amatopa nthawi zonse, kwezani mutu. Ngati amakhumudwa kapena amazengereza nthawi zonse, chepetsani ndipo mubwezeretse chidaliro kaye.

Mafunso ochepa othandiza odzifunsa nokha gawo lililonse lisanayambe:

Kodi mutu ndi weniweni kapena wovuta kumvetsa? Ana ang'onoang'ono amafuna weniweni. Akuluakulu amatha zonse ziwiri.
Kodi umafuna kuganiza masitepe angapo? Sungani kumeneko kwa azaka zisanu ndi ziwiri kapena kupitirira.
Kodi pali yankho lolondola kapena ndi lotseguka? Lotseguka limagwira bwino ntchito pamene ana akula ndipo amafunika kupanga malingaliro.
Kodi yankho lokonzekeredwa lili lalitali bwanji? Chiganizo chimodzi ndi chabwino pa zaka zinayi. Kufotokoza kutalika kwa ndime kuli kwanzeru pa zaka khumi.

Mwana Mmodzi, Gawo Limodzi Panthawi Imodzi

Kungakhale kosirira kuyerekeza abale kapena kuyeza mwana wanu ndi mwana wa oyandikana naye. Koma kukula kwa kuyankhulana kuli ndi mtundu wotambasuka wachibadwa, ndipo chiwerengero chothandiza kwambiri nthawi zonse ndi mwana wanu mwezi watha poyerekeza ndi mwana wanu lero.

Tsatani zopambana zazing'ono - nthawi yoyamba imene anafunsa funso lowonjezera mwadzidzidzi, tsiku limene anafotokozera mng'ono wake chinthu osamuuza. Nthawi izi ndi zochitika zenizeni zofunika.